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  1. Cherrypop

    Cherrypop Wicked Kitten

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    Friendship to me is one of the most important relationships you can have. If you choose wisely, your friends will stay with you for the rest of your life. You can’t choose your family, but you can choose your friends, and they become like family. Do you have close friends? Do you value your friendships? Are you a good friend?
     
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    1. camp lajune
      First off I am truly sorry for your loss. That's the kind of hurt that will never go away, at least the sharp edges will dull somewhat over time. Yes I have close friends. Some of them I would glady take a bullet for. You seem to be a good person Cherry Pop. It's to bad that you have to deal with the death of a love one. Be good to yourself.
       
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  2. Cherrypop

    Cherrypop Wicked Kitten

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    When my boyfriend was sick and died last year, my friends are the ones who took care of me during the darkest time of my life. When he finally passed, I called my friend to come pick me up from the hospital, not my family. They’ve listened to all my problems, and given me advice and when the advice didn’t work, they took me out drinking lol. And I’ve done the same for them. I tell them everything, even all the crazy stuff I do here, and they never judge. I’m truly blessed. I’d do anything for them and I’m insanely loyal. If they needed help moving a body, I’d clear space in my Jeep :)
     
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    1. Ed Itor
      Do you have one of those big box Jeeps?
       
      Ed Itor, Jul 1, 2020
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    2. Cherrypop
      I have a four door hardtop Wrangler. Is that what you mean?
       
      Cherrypop, Jul 1, 2020
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    3. vincenzz
      So sorry to have learned about your b/f.
      But happy you had people there for you.
       
      vincenzz, Aug 22, 2020
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    5. coastguy53
      I'm sorry for your loss CP, it s not an easy time I know. Thoughts and prayers for you.
       
      coastguy53, May 24, 2021
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  3. Jh2

    Jh2 Porn Star

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    There's nothing like a good friend someone who doesn't judge you and has your back and maybe from time to time tells you when you're being a real fucking idiot
     
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    1. Cherrypop
      Exactly. They tell you the truth because they want what’s best for you.
       
      Cherrypop, Jun 30, 2020
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    2. Jh2
      It's hard to find people like that
       
      Jh2, Jun 30, 2020
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    3. Cherrypop
      Yea it is. That’s why it’s so special
       
      Cherrypop, Jun 30, 2020
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  4. Jh2

    Jh2 Porn Star

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    Irreplaceable
     
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  5. bigbird

    bigbird Dirty English Gent

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    I tend to keep a small and very close circle of "true" friends - but then i have a wide circle of friends that I play sports with etc - who are on a different level to the close ones. The close friends know they could ask me for anything and i'd try to help them.

    Once you're a close friend - that's it - you're with me for the long term ride baby. If you're an associate friend - you can come and go.

    Online friendships are the same - over the years i've been on this site - i've made 3 proper friends that i really got to know super well and i would have done anything for.
     
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  6. msman

    msman Porn Star Banned!

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    Some of my best friends are people I have not seen in 40 years.
    Some who I thought were best friends were only friends when they wanted something.
     
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  7. Rixer

    Rixer Horndog

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    I'm a loner. Whether that's good or bad, it's the way it is.
     
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      You my friend are no loner here. You're a good friend to many out here. I just happen to still be on the fence with that ;)
       
      Jack Mine, Aug 22, 2020
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  8. shadowfap

    shadowfap Fap Happy Jester

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    Small circle of friends. One friend I've known for 15 years. Like family to me.
     
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  9. stumbler

    stumbler Porn Star

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    Yes friendship is important but I learned the hard way that a person that thinks they have a lot pf friends probably doesn't have any true friends. Just a bunch of sociable back stabbers. True friends are rare.
     
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    1. Cherrypop
      This is true. I have a lot of friendly friends lol. But I only have a few “true friends”. But I only need a few ♥️
       
      Cherrypop, Jun 30, 2020
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  10. thinskin

    thinskin Porn Star Banned!

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    Friendship and trust are two halves of the same coin!

    Thinskin
     
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      Pity a fool who has neither
       
      1 Toy Maker, Mar 3, 2023
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  11. BoundSlave

    BoundSlave Sex Lover

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    My friends are my family and I'd be lost without them. We all lean on each other and are there for one another.
     
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  12. Ficxa 479

    Ficxa 479 Porn Star

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    What d you do if you fall in love to one girl or man togather with your friend. When i was young I d fight or try to talk, but these Days I think why not to have a threesome.
     
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  13. Heywood123

    Heywood123 Porn Star

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    I have a bad habit of screwing my female friends. I’m not saying friends with benefits doesn’t work I’m just saying it can get complicated. As far as male friends I used to have a lot and over time I have learned I really only have one but that’s ok one true friend is better then one hundred fair weather friends.
     
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    1. Cherrypop
      I used to have way more guy friends but they got girlfriends and wives and then they stopped wanting to hang out with me. I get why, but it still sucks.
       
      Cherrypop, Jun 30, 2020
    2. Heywood123
      I honestly think it’s easier in some ways for opposite sexes to be friends. It’s just that pesky sex drive that gets in the way. If you spend enough time together it’s bound to happen. But I don’t think it’s the place of a significant other to tell their better half who they can and can’t be friends with at least I never would I pick my battles.
       
      Heywood123, Jun 30, 2020
    3. Cherrypop
      I agree. My ex was super jealous of my guy friends but I told him if he didn’t trust me then there was no point in being with me. I’m not about to dump friends because of insecurity. But then they kind of dumped me lol.
       
      Cherrypop, Jun 30, 2020
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  14. Braxton.B

    Braxton.B Poontang Connoisseur

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    I'll stick with be friendly instead of friends. When you have friends them bastards are always wanting to borrow something be it tools, money, or my time. I'm peaceful and happy being a loner.
     
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      Fuckin A
       
      Braxton.B, Jul 1, 2020
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    3. Cherrypop
      It’s 2020 and women can pay the bills too :)
       
      Cherrypop, Jul 1, 2020
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    4. Ficxa 479
      Yep galantry is gone at the west
       
      Ficxa 479, Jul 1, 2020
    5. Braxton.B
      @Cherrypop buy me a chilidog ASAP. Do it topless with tassels hanging off the nips.
       
      Braxton.B, Jul 1, 2020
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      I’ll get right on that lol
       
      Cherrypop, Jul 1, 2020
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  15. curiousscouser

    curiousscouser Porn Star

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    I have two very close friends, I've lost two others.
    I would drop everything for them, and they for me. We've seen each other through births, bereavements, marriages, divorces, bankruptcies, illnesses, accidents and celebrations.

    Lovers come and lovers go, but that sort of friendship is for a lifetime.
     
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  16. 1 Toy Maker

    1 Toy Maker Kuns og Kram Smukke Love once found never lost

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    I don't like people but understand the conformity of having "friends" so I have acquired the requisite number and use them when needed.
     
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  17. heads-up

    heads-up Porn Star

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    Family, friends, and finances....oh, and fucking, can’t forget fucking.
     
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  18. conroe4

    conroe4 Lake Lover In XNXX Heaven

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    There was a swim club owned by a family friend that hired us as young teens. The boys would clean the pool each morning, and lifeguard during the day.
    The girls would run the concession stand, hamburgers, fries, snacks, ice cream, that kinda stuff. It took probably 8-10 of us to make the swim club work.
    High dive and low diving boards. The owners were nulliparous, so they took to mentoring all of us. We became really close at the time, and I'm still close
    with 3 of the girls...and that started 52 years ago. In fact, 2 of the girls showed up in my hospital room and participated in singing the Beatles song of "When
    I'm Sixty-Four" for my birthday recently. We're getting together soon after this virus is tamed. Gonna be fun, Charlie!
     
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    2. Cherrypop
      Yea it’s always tough when the SO feels threatened. I was saying that elsewhere. I lost a lot of my guy friends when they got married.
       
      Cherrypop, Jul 1, 2020
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    3. conroe4
      He is a Mexican, and they're very protective of their wimmens. She had 4 kids. Sorry, but I wouldn't be interested under any circumstances. LOL

      The other girls agreed that it was ridiculous.

      I did read where you lost guy friends too, and that's one of the ways we lose friendships. Oh well, she broke it off she said in order to stay with her hubby.
      Funny, hubby is a doctor, grew up in my neighborhood, and I knew him long before I knew her. Hmmm, maybe he knew me too well!!! LOL!!!
       
      conroe4, Jul 1, 2020
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    4. Cherrypop
      I get why my guy friends want to make their wives and girlfriends happy I guess. But it’s a slippery slope.
       
      Cherrypop, Jul 1, 2020
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    5. Ficxa 479
      Conr it is justa a great scenario for a holiwood movie. Man you should have guts to go to that woman hobby ant tell him that you put your dick on a table if smth happens to his wife.
       
      Ficxa 479, Jul 1, 2020
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