ive been trying for a few years to get my cock in my girlfriends ass but her tight hole just wont let me in. any suggestions

 

Lube. And get her to relax…

 

Lube, lube and lube. And as mentioned, get her to relax. I know a girl who squirts lube from the tube into her bum and then all around the opening and then, after a half blowjob, lubes his cock up and then they try. And she likes it back there so it takes time. You can also try a skinnier toy or a short butt plug. Lube, Lube and slide it in. After a little foreplay, ease it out slowly and replace it with your cock.

 

Use a lubed finger to open her up a bit. May have to lube up some more and put two fingers in. Slowly go in, stay for a bit and slowly withdraw then repeat.

 

It doesn't belong in her ass.

 

Try using a dildo first, get a 5 inch one , not to big and using lots of lube, slowly insert it in, don;t ram it in. Do this a few times, so she can get use to the feeling of having anal , then lube your cock and enjoy the sheer pleasure of anal sex.

 

Stop trying. As Ginger_slutty points out. She clearly isn't into butt play.

 

Ahhh just force it quick like taking off a band aid. Once its in. Bingo it's all good.

 

If she wants to try it, I would try lots of lube, and gradually get her stretched by starting with a skinny anal dildo or a finger first.
If she has not indicated she wants to try it, then forget the idea.

 

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I would suggest finding an anal fuck buddy. Someone who enjoys it and wants it. If she wont relax and welcome it you are never getting her ass.

 

Ask her to tell you the truth first. and then training. If she really wants it. Always use lots of lube, and the ones made for anal are the best. Training starts with a set of training plugs. IF she really wants to accept your cock, she will try. Have her insert the smallest plug herself and learn to wear it all the time, not just in the bedroom. Graduate to the next size and then the biggest. Use a vibrator plug in her ass when you are fucking her cunt to give her orgasms so she learns that they are good/great. Have fun!!

 

I've been having the same issue with my wife, too. Lots and lots of lube, of course. Stretching her asshole with my fingers first helped, too.

 

she wants me to fuck her ass badly but she cant get past the initial entry. my cock isnt huge 8-1/2" although it is pretty fat all the way. i think the biggest problem is that the few times ive gotta the tip and a few in in her i got harder than ive ever been not to mention it was so tight and felt so good i just wantes to pound her so hard i could hardly control myself.

 

Dont try putting it in there

 

This goes on forever lube, obvious. But change position. There are better positions for her than doggy sty)e. 3 years hasn't changed his approach. Now she's tired of it and clenching shur

 

Get a strap on, let her fuck you in the ass, then you might understand why it just won’t work in her ass!
Ever think she might not want your cock in her ass

 

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Should have just pounded her ass.

 

She’s tense. Assholes can easily stretch to about 7 inches before tearing. So she’s clenching the muscles. She really doesn’t want you in there.