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Have you ever engaged in chairty (a.k.a. as pity or gift) sex?

  1. Yes

    18 vote(s)
    62.1%
  2. No

    5 vote(s)
    17.2%
  3. There is no such thing as "chairity sex"; sex is sex

    3 vote(s)
    10.3%
  4. No, but will do so if required of me

    1 vote(s)
    3.4%
  5. Yes, and I did not like it at all, but felt it was my duty

    2 vote(s)
    6.9%
  1. Christophel

    Christophel All natural

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    Charity sex, sometimes also known as "pity sex" or "gift sex", is having sex with someone when you don't feel like it or with someone with whom you normally wouldn't have sex, for the benefit/satisfaction of that person, often when there is a measure of pity or duty involved.
    Have you ever engaged in chairty sex? Have you ever given sex as a "gift"?
     
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      As a student I went on a 4 week's student's tour of Europe as tour leader, which entitled me to a single room. One of the girls on the tour was the "odd one out", not only because of her looks (she was Asian), but also because of her personality (being a loner). One evening, as the others were partying at the student's hostel we were staying, I found her sitting alone in the garden. I chatted her up, invited her to join the party, but she would not, admitting that she "feels left out". I invited her to my room for a drink, and the rest is history - we made love all night long, even if there was no sexual attraction to her from my side. She was most grateful for my unselfish deed.
       
      Christophel, Jun 20, 2021
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  2. bilezmilf

    bilezmilf Sex Lover

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    no pity sex. I will pity you because you won't get sex
     
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  3. darkride

    darkride Porn Star

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    FYI there was a pity sex thread about a week ago... some interesting thoughts there.
     
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  4. stan123

    stan123 Porn Star

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    No. Unless there was some sort of attraction, that being looks, personality, or just an enticing attitude.
    Personally I prefer slightly more than just a mere casual opportunity.
     
    1. stan123
      After reading what @speakeasy said it does put a different perspective on what my perception first was.
      I suppose its very possible most of us could have sex with someone when we did not actually intend to or would normally not seek it of them.
       
      stan123, Jun 20, 2021
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    2. speakeasy
      That's the problem with most of these poll questions.
      They are usually black or white, A or B.
      Then you have to write an epic novel to explain your answers.
       
      speakeasy, Jun 21, 2021
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  5. german-rosi

    german-rosi Porn Star

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    yes it was a bit of both cherty and pity sex
     
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  6. nhbimwm

    nhbimwm Porn Star

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    Yes , I once had sex with my step-sister's best friend , because my step-sis asked me too because she was a virgin at 23 still !
    She wasn't ugly , but she was a plain jane type , big boned , if you get what I mean?
    I gave her a lot of 1st that night ! Her 1st oral sex , both giving and receiving ! I gave her her 1st orgasm from both oral and vaginal sex! Her 1st multiple orgasm ! And her 1st anal sex !

    BTW, I met up with her a couple of years ago at a reunion , she is no longer a Big girl , she is a very classy looking lady of 60 . Who thanked me again for our night together! ;)
     
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  7. speakeasy

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    I think it's safe to say that most women have had sex with someone when they didn't feel like it.
    Can't speak for men.

    Countless times. Various scenarios but a good example would be sex with another woman. I've only done it when there was an audience.
    Either her husband wanted to watch her go down on another woman, watch another woman go down on her or she wanted to experience either of the afore mentioned experiences.

    The first time I licked another woman was while she was going down on me. She swung herself around so we were in a 69 position and I knew what she was going for.
    Most guys figure reciprocation is "part of the deal" whenever they do something. Back rubs, dinner and a movie, doing the dishes, going to your mother's house to get stuff out of the attic.
    Whether he just comes out and asks for it, he's usually expecting a little sumpin' sumpin' for his efforts.

    I don't know if I'd call it "charity" sex but we had a friend whose wife passed away after many years of marriage.
    He was depressed and after a year still couldn't even thing about seeing anyone new.
    Said it had been so long since he'd been single, he didn't even know what the "rules" were anymore.
    I helped him out of his funk and got that "first one" out of the way.
    A guy at an animal rescue charity auction asked me if I was part of the auction but I don't think that's what you meant

    Yes. A woman in a couple we've played with was shy and fairly submissive. (not to the point of walking around in public with a collar and ball gag but she was definitely not the "assertive" type when it came to sex)
    For her birthday, she told her husband she wanted a sub for the day and Kevin "volunteered" me.
    She had me go down on her before and after she had sex with her husband.
    She had me "fluff" both Kevin and her husband before they had sex with her. (although by then, they didn't really need much "fluffing")
    She had me kneel in front of her husband with her kneeling behind me and she held my head while he slid his dick into my mouth (I'd given BJ's before and didn't really need my head held in place but it was her birthday, so...) Once he had established a rhythm she massaged my boobs and tweaked my nipples.
    All in all, it wasn't the worst sub experience I've ever had.
     
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    1. speakeasy
      "still couldn't even thing about seeing anyone new."
      Think, not thing.
      I could read these things 5 times before hitting "comment" and never see the typo until the edit time window has closed.
       
      speakeasy, Jun 21, 2021
    2. Christophel
      I have sympathy with you. The same way I missed the spelling "chairty" in stead of "charity" in the title to this posting, before it was too late to edit. :woot:
       
      Christophel, Jun 21, 2021
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  8. LadyTanya

    LadyTanya Sexy Tease

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    Long time ago on a weekend trip with a guy I was dating.
    Learned to fuck guys first, THEN plan trips later from that..
    Not sure if it can be called pity sex, the guy had a mini penis. So small a good finger fuck would be way better. Anyway it was a weekend at a hotel, so I fucked him several times and enjoyed it. It was the kind of small that he could not really fuck with it, but I am a skilled rider so it was possible to fuck.
    Tallest and biggest guy I have ever been with, unfortunately penis was not a match...
     
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    1. Allie in cali
      Ditto
       
      Allie in cali, Jun 21, 2021
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      That sucks all the way around! Ha. But you’re a trooper! Haha
       
      KarlasDaddy31, Jun 21, 2021
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  9. Ginger_slutty

    Ginger_slutty Happy Harlot

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    Is charity sex when you give it away?
     
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      Nope; you donate it (your cum, I mean...) ;)

      [​IMG]
       
      Christophel, Jun 22, 2021
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  10. Allie in cali

    Allie in cali Porn Star

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    Yes
     
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  11. Jizzmaker

    Jizzmaker Sex Machine

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    I need some. I have 5 kids and I grand my wife won't even give me a bj
     
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  12. Jizzmaker

    Jizzmaker Sex Machine

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    Sext trade anything please ladies pm me
     
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  13. transGenna

    transGenna Sex Lover

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    i dont do pity sex
     
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  14. Paul33333

    Paul33333 Pleasure King

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    How about revenge sex.
     
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  15. Longforit

    Longforit Porn Star

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    My wife has introduced many men and women for me, some of the men were gay because she knows how much I love to have sex with gay men,
    And the women were either divorced women that she works with, or women that after hearing stories about how good I am had to experience how good I am,
    I love my gifts my wife gives me, I always totally enjoy every one of them
     
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  16. pussy in boots

    pussy in boots ride em cowgirl up

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    Friend of my dad. Divorced, 4 years, till I graduated highschool.
    Guys when I'd brake up with them. I'd be fucking them when I'd tell them.
    FWB. No connection, just hard cock sex.
    One night stands.
     
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      I guess that would take a little bit of the pain or the breakup out of it
       
      sealfan, Jun 22, 2021
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  17. pussytimes

    pussytimes Porn Star

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    I received charity sex in my teen and lose my v card . Thanks my crush
     
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  18. Jack Mine

    Jack Mine The Pope of Assholiness

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    If it wasn’t for pity sex I’d have no sex at all. I’m married
     
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  19. Milo Cronos

    Milo Cronos The Sexual Intellectual

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    No and after a year of marriage I told the wife, "no more regifting" you get one year to pull that shit with me while it's still good! LMAO
     
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