bnthrdntht's departure got me thinking; how many people here participate with or without the knowledge of their girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/wife/mother?

My wife doesn't know I post here. I keep it that way because she is not as open-minded about sex as I am and wouldn't approve of some of the things I freely admit to here. Same goes for stories I post; she would be a little shocked to see some of the things I write. I'm certainly working on that, but until then I'd rather not shock her too much all at once. Even though we've been together many years now, I'm the first guy she ever slept with and I'm still easing her into things, so to speak.

So, my vote goes into the "Hell no!" category. I;ve added a few options besides a simple Yes or No because there really are more than 2 clear-cut answers.

 

Agreed, HELL NO! lol, 'yea mom im on a sex forum' 'yea babe im on a sex forum' 'yea hun im on a sex forum' think any of those would come with an 'okay' response? lol

 

My husband knows and I'm pretty sure he doesn't mind.

 

Same as Rain. My husband knew about my online activities even before we were married, so I never saw any reason to keep the knowledge of places like this from him. Sometimes he even watches and coaches me. And it gets him hot. :wink:

 

When I was married my ex and I both posted on a forum of a different site. She and I never kept what we did online from each other. I think that is the way it should be.

 

Well, aren't you going to introduce me to her? :wink:

 

In the mood for a little trivia? Do you remeber the song from a few(lots) of yrs ago called "BYe, Bye, Miss American Pie"...By Don McClean? Do you remember that song what and who it was about?

 

Don't have a significant other at the moment.

 

Yup, she knows and don't care!

 

I wonder why it matters, I mean your not cheating. Not doing anything wrong persay..just posting on a message board that happens to be about sex. Am I wrong for thinking nothing wrong about this? In fact I would want my wife to join in too if I had one, just another female opinion.

 

I suppose I'll respond to this one as well. I knew that bnthrdnthat was on here. I knew she posted replies to sex questions. I knew she talked about more than just sex on here. I had and still have absolutely no problem whatsoever with the things she did on here, with one HUGE, MASSIVE, GARGANTUAN thing which is what this whole thing is over. In fact, after it was all said and done, I told her I thought she should stay because its something she enjoys and I want her to be happy. This is exactly what I told her, almost word for word, "I'm not asking you to leave the forum, all I'm asking you is to think before you do things on here." I don't think that's wrong of me as her husband. I give her the same respect concerning things I do online.

 

Yes, she knows I'm on here. I just don't go browing the pics section while she's in the apartment. Most of the time I'm chatting, she's asleep across the room.

 

My fiance doesn't care that I post. Actually he enjoys this site.

 

I'm going with the HELL NO!!! Not very open minded.

 

As I have no significant other.. I can't answer it for this.

My parents don't care.

"Son, we'd rather you look at pornography and sexual things than have you watch violent TV!"

I love their stance Not that it matters, though, I'm 18 and I own the computer.

 

I voted yes yes yes we love it.

 

SNEAKY!

 

I'm going with a great big Hell No! The wife hates in when I j/o....she considers it cheating! So she would definitely disapprove!

 

My wife knows & doesn't care, I've even had to ask her for some answers. I can't get online at home so I usually tell her some of the posts when I get home.