I wanna see my lady get fucked, but
I not sure what im gonna allow her to do?? kissing?? anol??

 

Anol is a no no on the first date

 

Ha ha ha what you are going to allow her to do? Oh you are amusing, you want her to fuck others but want to dictate to her what she does. Uh uh darling if any man wanted to set me up fucking others he would have no say what I did as I never fuck to a script.
If you are questioning your jealousy now it will destroy you after

 

Amazing answer,,,,, lol. Good for you!

 

I think basic ground rules are fine, some couples do not allow kissing this is common, strange I know when they are doing something so intimate but hey if it works for them great.. Only experience I had with this was with a ex and TBH if you are fucking around with close friends it will more often than not end in tears.. Another question should be are you going to be fucking other women?,, if so then join a swingers group or club and go from there. Worst case is your women gets hit by the cock truck and loves it then wants every guy cumming in her and its a one way tap you can't really turn it off once its started to flow well.

From my brief 6 month relationship with my ex it was great at the time with all the experimenting but honestly do you want to sleep in the same bed evey night with a girl who has just been DP'ed by two guys that have used her like a condom with feelings?.



This is what I hate about this type of experience the girl is having a great time and the dude filiming keeps talking, just shut the hell up and let her enjoy the cock her way, it is not a situation for you to be a "dom" it is her controlling you so if you cant deal woth that do not do it...

 

Before we started our threesomes we've never discussed boundaries. We found out to have a reasonable good understanding of them. A few things we later discussed not to allow for a further occasion. For me that was the time she went to our fuck buddy alone pretending that she went out with a good (female) friend of hers - she wanted it so badly and she thought I wouldn't allow her.

For her it was that she didn't like me to do bisexual things with him (though through time her ideas and fantasies on that have shifted back and forth).

 

Jealousy is not an issue for me. I trust my wife completely and even if she begins fucking other men and women I know that we will still be together. Wish she would feel the same way.

 

She isn't open to it yet.

 

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I wasn't jealous at all. The guy I was watching in the mirror fucking her was a really good looking son of a bitch.

 

I always had the fantasy of watching my wife. We would often role play or tell dirty stories. My favorite was i would go to our room early and hidewhile she picked a guy to meet her there. Little did we know that he was bringing a friend and surprised as we were.by
E. It i was very turbed on by the idea. We talked about it many times but never got the chance. Right before we split, we was pretty heated into it and i wish i would have known someone , cause I wanted to watch her get fucked by a huge cock.

 

I think it was a little different for us since it was a journey we discussed and something she desired. I found myself actually feeling proud of her for being so open with me..and aroused watching her control a man for the first time with me.

 

The only demand that would be reasonable is that it be safe sex.

If you let her have sex with someone else what she does or doesnt do is her business if you cant accept that then dont go there

 

I remember the first threesome I had was pretty vanilla really. eg no DP No Anal and no I didnt even kiss the other guy.

It was a long time ago but a fond memory for sure

 

I've never seen my wife getting fucked, but I've seen her off, to go and get fucked by someone in the same camping site where we were .

We both knew where she was going. And I made sure she had got her condoms.

Was I jealous? 'Sure was, but that was what added to the excitement. I was shaking with excitement.
Especially when she told me that it happened in the shower, and they had to keep pressing on the shower button, to hide the sounds, they were making.

Just writing about it now has the same effect on me.

And there were other times too. My wife will jump into bed with any guy that pleases her. I have no say in the matterr

 

Yeah... I wouldn't deal with that very well. Her going off without me would make me feel jealous and alone. I'd probably feel just as bad sitting there passively watching. Now, in a group setting where we could be a team, like we are with everything else in life... maybe some day.

 

Yes, it is a bit maso. Well......very maso. But, if you can live with jealousy, and even enjoy it, it does liberate you to a large extent. When I was younger, I used to get very jealous, and it made my life a misery. I reprogrammed my mind into realizing that the importance is that the person needs you enough to want to stay with you, and still needs you sexually.