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  1. itsamystery00

    itsamystery00 Porn Surfer

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    I'm a 20 year old girl, and my body count is relatively small when compared to other girls my age. Every time I tell a guy about it, he get's shocked. They're always like "but you're pretty" or "well why?", etc. I'm a person who loves sex. I've always been considered kinky by my close friends. However, I do not enjoy having sex with random guys all the time. And when I tell guys that, they have a "I can fix that" attitude as though it's something that needs to be fixed. To me, there's nothing wrong with the amount of guys I've slept with. I always preferred relationships and so that's how I operate.

    Do you think being able to count the amount of men on your first hand is crazy when you're 20 going on 21?
     
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      I don’t think it’s weird at all
       
      sr99, Sep 18, 2020
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    2. Bushlover924
      Everyone advances at their own speed. At 20 you have a lot of years ahead of you to up your total if you want. As a girl you can have it any time you find a man attractive enough. Just enjoy life and your count will go up!!!
       
      Bushlover924, Sep 18, 2020
    3. Horndog60
      nothing wrong with that you want quality not quantity,and not hop in the sack all the time that's commendable.
       
      Horndog60, Sep 18, 2020
    4. Guy Donner
      ohhh i want you on top of me
       
      Guy Donner, Sep 19, 2020
    5. TheBlueDog
      Not at all.
       
      TheBlueDog, Sep 25, 2020
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  2. phxbi_bear80

    phxbi_bear80 Abu el Banat

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    No I don't put much stock in the "body count" of other people, even those I am in a intimate relationship with. I think a lot of guys just assume attractive, sexually confident women have sex with tons of guys because they would if they could.
     
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  3. randallgossip

    randallgossip Bad Wolf

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    I have no idea if it's statistically unusual, but I'm almost 40 and I can count the women I've had oral or vaginal sex with on one hand. But I've had a lot of sex within a few (mostly) serious relationships. Hell, I've had more sex in one night than I can count on two hands, but it was just with one girl. I guess, like you, my emphasis has always been on relationships. Was that the right way to be? Who knows. My final thought is you do you and fuck what anyone else thinks.

    But as for saying "I can fix that" well, come on... I couldn't resist trying a corny line like that!
     
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  4. hannahsbigdaddy

    hannahsbigdaddy Stoned Always

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    No not weird at all.. your body your choice to sleep around or not. And commendable for being a "good" girl.
     
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  5. NCfan

    NCfan Porn Star

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    Body count? Are you a hit man for the mob?
     
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  6. Cherrypop

    Cherrypop Wicked Kitten

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    When I read “body count” I thought of murder lol. But I guess u mean sexual partners

    I get what you’re saying. I’m 35 and I’ve had sex with 4 men. Not because I can’t have more, but because I only sleep with boyfriends and I’ve had very long relationships. It’s not a competition.
     
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  7. NCfan

    NCfan Porn Star

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    Cherry you slut. :) You've had 33% more than me. I believe my number could have been a few higher but for shyness/inexperience when I was younger.
     
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      I think it’s funny that because I’ve only slept with 4 men that it seems like I’m inexperienced. But I fucked their brains out. All the time all over the place. So yea. Not so innocent :angelic:
       
      Cherrypop, Sep 18, 2020
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  8. writerz01

    writerz01 A Gentleman.. But not always

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    I would rather have really enjoyable sex with a few partners than a lot of bad sex with many.
     
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  9. Sweetpassion

    Sweetpassion Pink gum drops.

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    It's your body your choice always. Who cares what others think about your choices? I have had alot of experience. Some good and some bad. Does it make me a bad person for the number of guys i have been with? I say no and if anyone thinks so it's their problem not mine. I do value healthy and loving relationships the most. For watever my reasons were relationships scared me in the past. Actually they still do. Even if i'm in one. Lol So i probably pushed away some that could had been great for me. I also do not think it's wrong to have a low "number" count. But they are not just numbers anyway. Shockingly most guys never even ask or want to know about past sexual experiences. If they like you. They have to accept you. That means all of you. Your past and all. Just be yourself.
     
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      You might say, becoming one with another in a relationship can be very difficult for people. The reasons are almost infinite. Mostly fear of some kind.

      You are right about acceptance by others no matter how many partners we have had. I have never asked, I never would.
       
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      You're right about that first part. Well said. I guess i am different. I like to know about someones past. Not to judge. Just to feel more connected and like i know what makes them who they are. Most people rather not know though. Which is fine either way.
       
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      I also like to know someone better. But I don't need their sexual details. If they wish to share a little I will listen. I would hope they are thinking about the person, the moment at hand. The few times I was interested in a truly serious relationship then yes, I was interested some, in their past. But not all.

      We all have our own needs of knowing someones past. It differs on how much.
       
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      Agreed!!
       
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  10. Gr8sex69

    Gr8sex69 Porno Junky

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    There’s no body count number that would be weird. If you’ve been with 1 or 100 people, thats your number, and no one except you, gets decide what is right for you. So keep enjoying the steady sex start exploring new partners, as long as you’re happy with it, so should everyone else .
     
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  11. havenfun

    havenfun Sex Lover

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    Really good sex requires some sort of relationship. That takes some time even if it is only sexual. A large number of one nighters is a sign of some intimacy issues. My wife and I are swingers. Our total sex partner count is around 8 each ,and that is over 23 years. I prefer lower partner counts. Indiscriminate sex partners along with not being real satisfying is kind of dangerous.
     
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  12. silkythighs

    silkythighs Porn Star

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    When I was 20, I had only been with three females and no guys. Granted I was very active from 20 on but mainly with older women. Which is a slightly different scenario than what your talking about. But my point is don't worry about how man partners you've had or will have. Its quality over quantity when it comes to sex and relationships IMO.
     
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  13. formerlyRC

    formerlyRC Porn Star

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    No.. Dont worry about it. Lots of partners doesnt equal happy better.
     
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  14. StrawberryCupcake

    StrawberryCupcake Ninja Fucktoy

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    I thought this thread was going to be about you being an assassin. Whew. What a relief. Nah girl, it’s perfectly fine. Keep doing what makes you happy. Don’t let anyone pressure you.
     
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  15. Cuddly_Kuma

    Cuddly_Kuma Sex Lover

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    I don't think that's a "bad" thing.
    No one degines how many partners is enough or too low. Something like that doesn't exist.
    I share your thought, I prefer relationships over ONS or the like and so in my 14 years of sexual activity I can still count my secual partners on one hand wothout using every finger.

    So do your thing as you see it right and enjoy what you do
     
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  16. G. Z.

    G. Z. Sex Machine

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    First off, no, it isn't crazy at all. Secondly, I have never heard someone use the term "body count" when talking about the number of people they've had sex with. That, to me, is crazy! o_O XD
     
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  17. Jh2

    Jh2 Porn Star

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    They're always making fun of cause I never killed anyone
     
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      Get with the program, slow poke! :jimlad:
       
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      I really should focus on it huh
       
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      Everyone should have goals they’re focusing on. Eye on the prize.
       
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  18. AlmostAvirgin

    AlmostAvirgin Sex Machine

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    Sex? What's that?
    I don't think it's weird. I'm 47 and have only had sex with 5 women. I used to like being in a relationship also. Then after a 10 year relationship that ended with a miserable 3 year marriage...I decided that relationships aren't worth it to me anymore.It's too much brain damage.
     
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  19. Milo Cronos

    Milo Cronos The Sexual Intellectual

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    Not at all unless you're trying to make a reputation for yourself and then bitch because you're being judged accordingly? If my wife had never began playing games with sex like it was "keep away" I would have only had 3 lovers my entire life and wore it just as proudly.
     
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  20. devour my pussy

    devour my pussy The Witchy Woman

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    There is no normal amount, but I do know that I have lost count of those that I have fucked but I do know it will be very much above the vanilla churchy peoples idea of normal. But I don't regret any of them
     
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