Yes !!! Just yesterday was her first!!! Loved it!!! Can't wait for next time!!

 

Things to consider,,, acquaintance? Good looking?? Yes,,I would watch

 

Not that one,, sorry

 

Farmington mo

 

If you start a family would you be willing to have sex with them when old enough and legal

 

So yeah, we’ve been away for quite some time now. A LOT has happened/changed but with that, a lot has stayed the same. Looks like someone was attempting to hijack our thread. Whether intentional or not...

 

I tend to disappear from this site for years at a time, but remember following this thread from times gone by, glad to see you are back. Now I just need a question, I had one but I forgot it LOL, Damn Post Covid disorder, I can go to the fridge, open the door, and not know why I am there, or worse, couple of days ago I stepped out of my bedroom and didn't know whether I was going to the bathroom, the laundry room, or the living room.. just stood there like an idiot. How is this relevant?, its not. Just cant remember my question, or did I even have a question LOL. Welcome back!

 

Sounds like me when I’m stoned

Thanks for the warm welcoming

 

I can relate. I had something I wanted to say in response, but it just slipped my mind. Glad to be back.

 

I see you guys are in socal as well. Have you ever had your bi play time yet and or threesome?

 

I agree but Craigslist met a few fun couples there

 

No and yes.

We went to a swingers party and found a couple that seemed up for some fun. By the end, it was pretty much just a threesome with the other guy. He did state afterwards that he was bi. Would have been nice to know going into the evening. So a threesome? Technically yes, just no guy/guy play. My wife played with her for a bit too but she didn’t seem much interested in what was going on. More like she was there simply to watch. It was fun, confusing and a bit frustrating, but meh, whatever.

 

One of the few lucky ones where CL actually was actually successful. Good for you!

 

What we realized about going to the swingers club was that we were in the wrong place. We wanted to play with another couple that pretty much would be an everyone playing with each other. What our imagined scenario would have been everyone was playing with each other. I guess it would be like a mini orgy experience and it wasn’t. She was definitely there so he didn’t have to play the single male. She didn’t even seem interested in me eating her pussy or both of us playing with her, she was just an ornament to help him get in his desired outcome. I came out feeling used, Adagio and I spent some time after understanding what went wrong there. It did help us grow as a couple though, so the experience still taught us something.

I think it just made us stronger as a couple, but if there is any doubt on either end this could kill you as a couple. If you can’t handle bringing another couple/person into your relationship and still be strong afterwards then don’t do it. Take the time to discuss situations with each other and respect how the other is feeling. You’ll know when you’re ready, even if your first time isn’t wasn’t what you expected.

 

Well said. You ended that post perfectly.

I’m curious about your guys’ approach to “test the waters” by being vocal with each other. I suppose pretending you guys had swapped that evening and I’m assuming you both were talking about what you both would enjoy about said scenario. Was there one particular thing you said that turned her off to it? Or was it the whole act in general?

 

^I meant to quote @Kenrychard lol