Oh .my bad I honestly didn't know it was considered a slur..to me little person sounds condescending. It's not really a fetish for me I didn't even know she was a little person until after we had chatted for a while..she just had head shot pictures on her profile.

 

It’s ok we all live and learn. Sometimes dwarf is used. But it’s more clinical and sometimes only applied to someone who has dwarfism and not a hormonal or developmental growth impairment. I’d avoid midget and maybe ask what her preferred term is if you continue to get to know her. I think asking also shows you care what she feels.

 

"maybe ask what her preferred term is if you continue to get to know her. I think asking also shows you care what she feels."

That goes for a lot of things! I always say "know your audience" before talking dirty to them.
What one person finds erotic might be offensive to someone else.
I've said it before, if you don't know me well enough to know if it's ok to call me a cock sucking slut, you don't know me well enough to call me one.

 

I don't think it will really be an issue shes not the overly sensitive type. We both have a playful sense of humor and once anyone gets to know me in real life they know I mean no harm with anything I say. I don't really see a situation where I would use any term for her she just short and it doesn't bother her.

 

Actually. The gal I know, is a lot more social, bubbly, and adventurous than a lot of the taller folk I know. She has an infectious smile and personality, a wicked and filthy sense of humor and is always excited to do something new and fun.
If THAT Ain't Magic, pure and simple, I don't know what is.

 

That is very true!!

 

That’s cool. Sounds like she is pretty chill. And I hope you understand I wasn’t like angry with you. I just have to take these moments to educate. I figure it saves some embarrassing moments in the future for tall and short people alike.

 

Mingalee, I am sure more open and honest conversation on the "little people" subject is needed. I was very fortunate to have had a little person lover for almost 8 years (she was married for the last 4 of those eight) Although she and I were aware of her and my body size differences I am sure it was not a contributing factor in our ongoing friendship and connection with each other. We still maintain a close friendship but distance has prevented an ongoing affair. None the less her and I had (and still have I believe) like desires and certainly enjoyed the best parts of the other especially our connection. She did insist on discretion and was probably somewhat self-conscious of our size difference when we went I. Personally I really didn't care what others thought she is awesome.

 

That’s awesome! All of my partners have been average to tall and I don’t really think about how we look together until I go to hold their hand and I have to reach up to

 

Then I kind of feel like a little kid.

 

Twat