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  1. ImDown6969

    ImDown6969 Sex Machine Banned!

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    I just received this text from a friend I’ve known since third grade who lives in the southwest now.



    “Forgot to tell you

    My dad shot himself last night.

    Didn’t finish the job. Much worse off now.

    We decide what to do next tomorrow.

    On Cole’s birthday and a day before fathers days.

    Just awesome huh?”


    PLEASE If you need mental healthcare, get it!

    If you break your arm, don’t tell me you’re not gonna go to the emergency room. There’s no shame in either.
     
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      yup
       
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  2. phxbi_bear80

    phxbi_bear80 Abu el Banat

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    Wow...that's a fucked up text to get! That's gotta be a mind fuck!!!
     
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  3. ImDown6969

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    Just receiving the text about it hit me like a hammer. CANT Imagine how my bro felt/feels !

    obviously, a sizable portion of mid western men are emotionally stunted and suffering from illness that run the gamut of clinical depression to delirium. Who knows, maybe tomorrow I’ll find out the guy was riddled with cancer just didn’t tell anybody. No matter what, that’s not the way to handle it.
     
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  4. darkride

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    I've no idea what the mental health system is like in the US...? Over here in Australia you can get up to 20 free sessions with a psych per year (strings attached, but it is free). Of course, there's still plenty of instances where help was sought and not received, leading to death - either the person seeking help, or because of that person's illness.

    It's one of the western world's worst medical issues, because of the stigma attached to mental illness.
     
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  5. coastguy53

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    I have several friends in psychology, one thing I've learned is how critical self care is. Make that me time regularly!!!!
    Having someone to talk to, vent on, laugh with, cry with can save your life.
     
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      Absolutely true !!!
       
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    deleted user 555 768 Porn Star Banned!

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    My career was, in the business, the right side of the keys, as we said...

    resources for assisting people with problems just plane sucks for the average person reaching out to get help,
    Its easy to say, just get help, ...just talking to a professional of any level involves appointments, insurance and usually a waiting period of weeks....
    people arent usually open to support groups in desperate times.

    A person with a mental illness or problem will be in denial and resist the reality that has befallen them,
    by the time someone with a problem realizes its serious enough to reach out, they're already in crisis,

    For some, going to the emergency room or a crisis center begins an official paper trail and entry into the.... system.
    its easy for someone in crisis to get deeper into the system as symptoms are displayed,...
    which often means court ordered 72 hour observation on the hospitals mental heath floor if there is one, if not, its hospitalization in the local mental hospital,
    once there, its extremely difficult to be released. People are restive to beginning this process.

    Friends and family are often the first to notice problems that are often dismissed as, that's just the way he or she is, and gets unnoticed as things gets worse.

    I've talked to many families who said, they saw things, and accepted and never thought it could get this far.
    Someone in crisis wont be making rational decisions to get help, it must begin with those around them
     
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    Advice heard from a client last week. Take it to heart. FB_IMG_1622202522592.jpg
     
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  8. ImDown6969

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    BOOM
     
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  9. ImDown6969

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    I know we haven’t agreed on certain issues in the past. Very big of you to help me here. Thank you!
     
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  10. Jack Mine

    Jack Mine The Pope of Assholiness

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    Years ago I was in a very dark place. Drinking and drugging, and just totally out of control. One night when I was totally blitzed out of my mind and severely depressed, I took an overdose of sleeping pills. I was found unconscious and rushed to the ER. When I woke up in the hospital I was still out of my mind, and ripped the intravenous needle out of my arm. I had a stream of blood pumping out of my arm like a garden hose. I attacked the hospital staff like an animal, and got jabbed with a sedative in my thigh. I woke up being pulled off the cot by two police officers , slammed against the wall and being cuffed and hauled off to jail.

    I was arrested over a long holiday weekend and spent 4 days in jail, until my court date Tuesday morning. I was given probation and ordered to attend anger management classes.

    What I’m getting at, is that nobody offered me any physiological help or directed me in any direction. I turned my life around and got help on my own. And I’ve never been embarrassed to say that I needed to get help. It was the smartest thing I ever done for myself. So never feel ashamed or embarrassed if you need help, with anything in life
     
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  11. Jack Mine

    Jack Mine The Pope of Assholiness

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    Who really needs the actual help and support here people :banghead:
     
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  12. ImDown6969

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    TF does that mean? Stupid is not enough? Asshole is not enough? Be both......well done. JFC
     
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      You misunderstood my intentions. I was bumping your thread letting people know that you need help and support, losing a dear friend this way. Sorry
       
      Jack Mine, Jun 23, 2021
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  13. Jack Mine

    Jack Mine The Pope of Assholiness

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  14. ImDown6969

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    I apologize for my misunderstanding. Too bad it’s not an Olympic sport. I am fucking world class at it.
     
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      :suck_dick:Me
       
      Jack Mine, Jun 29, 2021
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  15. deleted user 555 768

    deleted user 555 768 Porn Star Banned!

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    I shower and brush my teeth regularly
     
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  16. ImDown6969

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    A likely story.....
     
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  17. deleted user 555 768

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    I also take measures to Guard against split personalities, I confuse myself sometimes
     
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  18. ImDown6969

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    You should hear my internal dialogue. They are REALLY confused. LOL
     
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    We can tell that from the political threads.
     
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  20. ImDown6969

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    LOL. The funny part about you, is how funny you think you are. ;)
     
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