Have you ever turned down sex with someone for one reason or another??

 

Actually yes, no attraction to the person

 

Yes. My ex-wife, who wanted one more time with me. I told her since she was busy fucking other guys while we were married, she could go find one of them. Haven’t spoken to her since and that was over 20 years ago.

 

Mine was so nice it post twice so I'm just filling the spot where I deleted the extra.

 

Over 40 years of sex, of course I have turned down sex occasionally?! In my marriage only if it was under the less than greatest conditions such as long days or high stress where my head just couldn't get into the game (I don't start what I can't finish). Outside of that I have passed on sex that was too easy and/or cheap as I don't like random quickies, handjobs or backroom blowjobs! I want to know them better than just a "hole to stick my dick into", a few hours to play and a bed to play on!

 

yes. I have. someone that is related to me that kept sexually harassing me

 

Nope, because I've never been asked

 

Lots of times , I was a bouncer at a disco (mid to late 70’s). Some of the regulars would get too drunk to drive and some were on my way home so I’d take them and make sure they got inside safely. Usually they took this as my making an advance on them. I’d politely turn them down. I hate fucking someone that’s too drunk. Besides. They fuck better when sober and I gained the trust of the gals which translated to fun dates when they were sober

 

Yes. Lots of times because I was in a relationship with someone else, and one time I turned down a blowjob because she wouldn't let me reciprocate by going down on her. (I should have just taken the blowjob!)

 

Yes, more than once.
All times involved women who held no attraction, or were, to quote @Milo Cronos "too easy and/or cheap as I don't like random quickies, handjobs or backroom blowjobs! I want to know them better than just a hole to stick my dick into".

 

Yes

 

Plenty of times and not enough.

 

Yes lots of time

 

I was having fun with a chick until I started fingering her and discovered that her pussy didn't smell very clean....
Deal breaker for me!

 

I have and should have turned down more of them.

 

Plenty of times and even then I should have turned down a few more!

thinskin

 

“The Power of No”

 

RE: the wife

There were times I wanted to, more as a punishment, but I was the only one being punished. I am too weak to turn it down.

 

Yes.
The time that comes to mind was during my freshman year in college. A small group of us were drinking large bottles of Crown Royal and SoCo. This one girl that lived on our floor got annihilated. She has a boyfriend back home and started talking about how she loves his cum, how she likes his cock, but wished it was bigger. Then she starts saying how she bets my cock is bigger than his and that I probably cum a lot. She also shows me her bra and asks if i like it. I still remember it has a pasley pattern.
Needless to say, I'm flattered, but she is way too drunk to actually consent to anything. I and her friend decide to walk her back to her dorm room. Instead, as we pass my door, she veers in and lies on my bed. Rather quickly, she passes out. My roommate was gone for the weekend, so i suggested to her friend that she stay in the room in my roommate's bed. I slept on the floor and i left the door to the room slightly open.
The next morning, when she woke up, she was disoriented because she woke up in my bed. Her friend quickly reassured her that nothing happened. She loves her boyfriend, and would have beendevastated had she cheated. It is a great example that when someone is that drunk, they aren't thinking clearly, and even if they initiate something, they may not actually want to consent to something. Best practice is to walk away (or sleep on the floor with a witness!)